The matter of fact ladies.. i'll give you the truth right away, Men and Women are not equal, they can't be. Stop your fighting for women rights, and demanding equality with men, stop it because it's not worth the trouble. Women are much more important than Men and are on a much higher level of rank. They (men) should be the ones feeling less important and fighting us (women) for equality.. You're probably wondering WTF by now.. what what the hell is she talking about.. here's why i'm sure Women will always be more important than Men;
House Roles :
Let's take basic house roles as an example for a start; what women do around the house, they take care of the appearance and design of the house, they make it stylish, they make it look good, they usually do most of the chores around the house, and they most of the times cook (not because it's our job, simply because when men do it, they do an awful job, and end up either burning the food, or messing up the place, making us regret letting them do it) - note that there are some of you thinking, no that's not true men can do these things like women do, but my example is based on the majority of men.
When it comes to kids, we take care of our children, we raise, nurture and feed, help in studies, and play with our kids, most of the men are usually busy at work and barely spend time with their children. we raise them, and most kids take morals from their mothers and end up having personalities similar to them more than like their dad (the thing about personalities is not a rule, just sometimes it's like that)- keep reading if you were raised by your father and you are thinking this is untrue.
Work Roles :
From the beginning of history till now, the only thing Men had an advantage in over Women, was that they are the providers for their families, and for their women, they work outside their homes and they keep the food on the table..But you see that's not the case these days, there's no such thing as "men are the providers".. women are providers too, and in some cases are the only providers for their men and family. and in other cases, both the man and the wife work outside and both provide, and that would be it for the man, while the woman also does everything else around the house and for the kids.
Social Roles:
Once upon a time, Women had not much of a role in society, as only men were electable, and only men used to have outside home privileges.. But again that's not the case these days, and these ideas are long gone buried deep, where no one can see them. It's a fact, women have a bigger social role now than men, as for most social organizations are headed by women and most social activists are women.. i'm not saying that there aren't any men in these organizations, i'm just saying that the majority are women. Not to mention that Women are electable, and are now political members, with important roles.
It's quite important to mention, Women give birth, and are those who go through the awful pains of childbirth, and the (very painful) breast feeding, in addition to the monthly period pains and mood swings, all of which require an unbelievable amount of patience and endurance and physical strength.. what do men suffer from? so don't be coming and telling me that men beat women in strength either, because i've seen men that can fall from a small breeze, and i've seen women who have bodies capable of carrying the strongest and biggest of men.
The Thing is that women are capable of mastering so many things at once, not to mention the capability to multi-task, and organize and all those things that normally most men aren't able to do. And they still feel that they aren't doing enough, and want to do more and still demand equality with men. While on the other hand, men barely have a role at all, and they think they're so great and that they're doing enough. That's very large evidence that women are much more ambitious and active than men.
And more importantly, a message to all you men reading this post right now, don't forget that your mothers are women, and you wouldn't even be here with your strength, knowledge and wit, if your mothers didn't give birth to you, stay up long nights for you to make sure you grow to be a man.
"Behind every great man, is a great woman"
This quote doesn't only apply to man and wife. It also means, none of you men would ever be here without your moms. first, for getting you into this world, and secondly working on making you what you are now. (so even those of you who were raised by their fathers, ask yourselves, who raised your fathers to be good fathers??)
Stop demanding equality, because by demanding equality, you are demanding to be less than what you already are.. Men should be demanding us for equality, they should want to be everything we are, and do all the things we do. Women should be the role-models of the world. literally.
haha awesome!
ReplyDeleteI absolutely agree with you.
ReplyDeleteI totally disagree with you! "stop your fighting for women rights, and demanding equality with men, stop it because it's not worth the trouble"???!!
ReplyDeleteI can see what you are trying to imply, but it simply does not make any sense. Human beings ARE equal. No gender is "better" than the other. There are great men just as there are great women.
A recent study showed that men and women are not THAT different. "Masculinity and femininity, the study found, "are not all-or-nothing traits...they are truly a continuum".
I also suggest you watch the video on the same link, from which I quote:
"Having gender stereotypes hinders people from looking at their partner as an individual"..."Being of the opposite sex isn't what makes it seem like your partner is from another planet. It's not so much sex, but human character that causes difficulties. It's not you, it's me" (Harry Reis, a professor of psychology at University of Rochester)
Link for the study and video:
http://goo.gl/q7JDz
It is people like you who write things like that who make women inferior .And you believing your own words is even more stupid than your own words. Not seeing that in this world women are inferior not because They are But they are treated like that from that stupid system and the change needs a lot of time. One simple example if you marry other than lebanese guy you cannot give your children the lebanese Identity. i can name many and many things that states women are inferior PHYSICALLY,MENTALLY and SOCIALLY and we can discuss that anytime you want if you are ready to be proven wrong :P
ReplyDeleteHi Rey :D Your article raises many good points and facts. However, you seem to have misunderstood the women's fight for equality.
ReplyDeleteWomen are not trying to drop all house roles and take over the work and social roles. Rather, they are fighting for these roles to be shared more equally by both men and women. Right now, society dictates that the work and social roles are solely for men, and house roles for women. It is a fact that women are discriminated against in jobs and politics, and that's against equality.
If both husband and wife are willing, why can't they share these roles equally? Why are the ambitions of women crushed, why are women disenfranchised?
You have raised a powerful point about how it is the men who should be demanding for equality. I believe men have as important a role as women in this fight. There needs to be loads to be done about the education of both parties.
The way you express yourself, and your writing skills (in English) is very weak.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't state any logical reason to prove what your point of views.
I don't understand where you think you're making sense, but for me you're not.